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The New-Agers were Right?? It’s All in Your Head?

Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.

~ Henry Ford

Well not-so-new-age thinker Mr. Ford, it turns out, was more correct than he knew! We’ve gathered up several studies alongside our personal, experiential knowledge to draw a picture for you that truly puts YOU in the driver seat (pun definitely intended).

Mindset

“Mindset” is the established set of attitudes held by someone, whether it is either negative or positive. You cannot have a positive life with a negative mindset. Your mindset not only determines your entire outlook on life and how you handle situations, but it also carries heavy impact for your health and the type of people you attract in your life.

Do you have a positive or negative mindset? Want to know what you can do to change it?

• How Old is “Old”?

A 2003 study concluded that people who thought old age started at 60 or less actually had a higher risk of serious heart problems later in life! Avoid the negative self-talk, and surround yourself with positive people and environments.

• Do you THINK you exercise enough??

According to a 2017 Stanford study which looked at mortality rates of 61,000 people over 21 years, those that THOUGHT they did less exercise than their peers tended to have a shorter lifespan – even if they got plenty of exercise. Of course exercise is still very important, but it’s interesting to note that your perceptions of it and yourself may be just as important!

• Do you talk yourself into failing?

Negative self-talk can creep up easily and is often hard to notice. You might think, “I’m so bad at this” or “I shouldn’t have tried that.” But these thoughts turn into internalized feelings and can cement your conceptions of yourself; they can become reality. When you catch yourself doing this, stop and replace those negative messages with positive ones. For example, “I’m so bad at this” becomes “Once I get more practice, I’ll be way better at this.” Or “I shouldn’t have tried” becomes “That didn’t work out as planned — maybe next time I will try it differently.”

Why Work to Change My Mindset?

Did you know that a negative mentality literally brings harm to your body? When you think negatively, dread about the future, or otherwise distress about things outside of your control, signals from your brain are sent out and initiate the “fight-or-flight” stress response. When you enter this state, many of the body’s self-repair mechanisms don’t function properly, and the immune system is suppressed. This means you are predisposed to illness!

Your attitude largely determines your direction. More Positive Thinking = More Positive Outcome; Smile more, be optimistic, and remember you are in charge! Be thankful, let go of regrets, and be kind to yourself!

“Every day may not be good, but there is good in everyday”

Surround Yourself with the Right People

When you surround yourself with positive people, you’ll hear positive outlooks, positive stories and positive experiences. Their positive words will sink in and affect your own line of thinking, which then affects your words and similarly contributes back into to the group!

Eliminate negativity in your life; positive thinking offers compounding returns, so the more often you practice it, the greater benefits you’ll realize!