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How NOT to Fail at Your New Year’s Resolution

We’re well into the new year. Did you set a new year resolution? Merriam-Webster defines the new year’s resolution as “a promise to do something differently in the new year.”

More than 80% of all New Year’s Resolutions fail. Why? Perhaps they weren’t SMART.

SMART goals are:

Specific
Measurable
Achievable
Relevant
Time bound

Let these guide your new year’s resolution or any goal you are looking to achieve this year.

SPECIFIC

Goals look good on paper and tend to be based on norms or societal demands. “Lose weight. Tone up. Get healthy” Set more PERSONAL goals! What do YOU want? Don’t conform. Change! The best way to do this is to ask one very important question regarding your goal…

WHY? Dig deep. Once a sincere, personal goal has been established and the motivation behind it is understood. “I get regular headaches. I will drink an additional 12 ounces of water each day. Maybe they are hydration related?” Once your goal is determined, make sure it is specific and there are steps laid out as to HOW you will achieve it. “I bought a new 12 ounce water bottle that I will fill and carry with me each day until I drink it all.”

MEASUREABLE

A measurable goal ensures that it can be truly attained. Are you going to “drink more water” every day? Being measurable means a goal would be something more like, “I will drink at least 90 ounces of water each day, not including my food, coffee, etc.” Measuring your goal makes it easier to track and know if you have achieved it.

ATTAINABLE

Goals should be reasonably possible, not setting yourself up for failure. Goals should be set to add a positive swing to our lives, not a punishment. If you set a goal of “working out every day”, first that’s not very specific, but also, is it even attainable? Do you have a family, kids, a full work schedule, volunteering, and other commitments? Daily workouts just may not be feasible without causing stress that can lead to other health problems. If you currently work out 3x/week, may your goal is looking at adding in that 4th day, but make sure you have steps in place for how that will look and feel. Maybe that 4th “workout” means you are adding in a 30-minute walk every week to de-stress, walk the dog, or walk with your significant other. Make your goal attainable and relevant to your life.

RELEVANT

Don’t set a goal just because it’s what you’re supposed to do. Set a goal that will make a positive impact on your quality of life.

Do you have high blood pressure? Set a goal that will aid in helping your blood pressure.

Need to lower your BMI for health reasons? Create a nutrition and/or fitness goal.

Ready to finally carve out “me time”? Book your workout sessions two weeks in advance and don’t break your appointment with yourself. Put it on your calendar as a recurring appointment.

TIME-BOUND

One of the biggest reasons New Year’s Resolutions specifically fail so regularly is because you have SO MUCH time to complete them! It’s great to also set long-term goals, but you need short-term steps you can take NOW, otherwise it is likely you will procrastinate to the point of the goal becoming just another thing you DIDN’T do.

In the case of adding water each day, set an attainable time of completing the goal for 6-weeks. You will likely find that it has become a new good habit that you can continue with and build on! Set your SMART GOAL TODAY if you haven’t yet!

Self-Improvement Must Reads!

This week we share some books that we think everyone should read or at least be aware of. Self-improvement books can inspire us to make better choices and enhance our lives. Whether you are humming along in life, going through a transition, or are just a continual learner, we challenge you to check out some, or all, of these books. Keep learning. We may not always have time to sit down and read a book. A few ways to keep learning, on the run with tools like these:

• Blinkist
• Audible
• iTunes University/iTunes
• Podcasts (like Optimal Health Daily on Spotify or Precision Nutrition’s Eat, Move and Live Better podcast on iTunes)

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz.

The Four agreements offer a code of conduct that can bring about a feeling of freedom and happiness: 1) Be impeccable with your word. 2) Don’t take anything personally. 3) Don’t make assumptions. 4) Always do your best.

Think you’ve heard all you need to hear? Think again – Ruiz’s insight is the stuff of legends!

On Fire: The 7 Choices to Ignite a Radically Inspired Life by John O’Leary

After suffering burns on 100% of his body as a child, not to mention amputated fingers and more to boot, John O’ Leary learns that we might not be able to choose what life throws at us, but we can choose how we live our life. Get ready to be inspired!

Start with Why by Simon Sinek

You hear this often at Ellipse Fitness, “what is your WHY?” In order to achieve a goal, the WHY needs to be deeply personal and it needs be a driving force, or else this will probably be just another one of those goals we fall short of without ever really giving it an honest try. It’s not enough to say, “I want to lose weight.” The WHY might be, I want to be healthy so I can keep up with my grandkids or be there to take care of my spouse as we age! Almost as difficult as discovering your WHY in life is staying true to it and keeping it alive.

The 10x Rule by Grant Cardone

Think BIG! In this book Cardone discusses how to invest 10x more and reach 10x further. Success always requires more effort than we anticipate. Be obsessed with your goal. Find direction on how to shift your goals and focus to reach for more by working harder, building your commitment, and finingd inspiration to accomplish it!

The One Thing by Gary Keller

Gary encourages you to prioritize your to-dos by importance, become disciplined in what you want by creating a habit of it, do NOT multitask, visualize the steps to get to your goal, and never compromise your personal life for your professional goals…instead prioritize your work time to perfection!

What to Say When You Talk to Yourself by Shad Helmstetter

Negative programming prevents individuals from becoming and doing exactly what they want. Any amount of inspirational reading will only provide us with techniques that could work if put into practice. This book explains the principles of self-talk – a unique way of reversing negativity, optimizing outlook, focusing plans and achieving success. The key is in affirming, telling yourself the right things which then reflect in a more positive lifestyle. Sometimes it really can be that simple!

What are you waiting for??

6 Strategies for Staying on Track Over Vacation

For many this time of year is a time to escape! A time to get away, explore, celebrate or otherwise enjoy themselves! And rightfully so! You should give yourself a break every now and again, and you should celebrate your health and fitness victories – but we want to give you the tools to preserve your hard work and help you get back on track upon returning!

1. Prep Meals Before You Leave

So much planning and preparing goes towards leaving town or the trip itself, but what about when you return? You will no doubt come back to a pile of work, laundry, shifted appointments, and/or approaching deadlines – set yourself up for success by freezing meals you can easily reheat when you get back! Soups generally work great for this!

2. Reasonable Expectations

Set small, achievable workout expectations during your vacation. Don’t expect to workout at the same intensity we do here every day while you are away, but plan ahead! Will you have access to a workout facility? You can easily do a total body workout with calisthenics and/or resistance tubes. Remember: even 20% of your normal workout load will make returning significantly less difficult and will help preserve the habit!

3. Pack Food

This is one of the most valuable skills to develop for those day or weekend trips! Find ready-to-eat foods that are healthy and appetizing to bring with you so you don’t end up at a fast food joint! Salads travel really well if you keep the dressing on the side, nuts and seeds are great go-to’s, and dried fruit or meat can be life-savers – but remember to check the labels for added sugars!

4. Imbibe Intelligently

Drink smart! Trade beer for wine or simple cocktails. Even tonic water is very high in sugar – it’s practically just coca-cola! Go for Seltzer/Club Soda instead and squeeze some citrus in there. Avoid pre-mixed as those are almost guaranteed to be sky-high in added sugar! Now the last tip here, and this is the big one: One glass of water before each drink will greatly cut down your overall intake as well as the impending hangover 😉

5. Don’t Punish Yourself

You are on vacation! Enjoy your favorite dinner or dessert – just moderate your indulgences! Plan for a healthy, trim breakfast and lunch if you’ll be dining decadently in the evening. Just don’t feel guilty about it.

6. Ease Back Into Your Routine

Upon returning? Go about 80% instead of 100% in sessions on your first week back, and FOAM ROLL/STRETCH! Your body will thank you and you will probably be ready to ramp it back up to normal intensity the following week if you take this approach.