Health

Mind Over Matter

Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.”

Henry Ford

Mindset is often hard to grasp. It’s so abstract and subjective. Regardless of what your goals are, the reality is that the proper mindset is backed by science and proven to positively influence outcomes. Have faith in yourself!

How many times have you found yourself saying, “Can this day get any worse??” only to find later in the day that – yes…yes it can. Now, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that a person who is constantly telling themselves, “I can do this. I will be better. I am strong enough to achieve what I have set out to.” is MUCH more likely to achieve their goals than someone who keeps beating themselves up, “Why did I even try? This is impossible. I should just give up.”

But we all do it. Things get tougher than we thought and we doubt our ability, or worse yet we get fixated on how far away we are from our goal instead of focusing on how far we have come! Luckily, there are concrete, simple steps you can take to greatly increase your chance of success:


Write it Down!
When you write down your goal and actions you can take to reach it, everything becomes more real. But don’t write it down and throw it away! Out of sight; out of mind. Write it down and put it somewhere you will see it. Edit and rewrite along your path towards the end goal to keep yourself motivated and continue to keep your mind in the right place.


Share Your Success!
Not everything must be as public as sharing on Facebook. Choose a confidant and keep them updated on your specific achievements, and make sure they are keen to why you are sharing with them! One study in particular (link below) showed that people who wrote down their goals and actions, rated them by difficulty, and sent a weekly progress report to a friend were far more likely than any other group to achieve their goals. In this study, 73% of that group were marked as successful as compared with only 43% for those who did none of the above.


Stay in the Present!
Build a ritual: Wake up every morning and identify ONE thing you can do TODAY that will bring you closer to your goal. It can be as small as “Go workout!” or “Drink a glass of warm lemon water”. Or go big! Change careers to offer your life more flexibility if you find you just never have time to commit to the life-changes you want to achieve.


Trust the Process!
We all can be impatient, we get it. 10 days into your new routine and you step on the scale…UP 2 POUNDS?!?! WTH? First off, it is important to note that it is recommended that you seek the guidance of a professional when it comes to making nutritional changes and engaging in high intensity exercise, but if you are eating right, exercising regularly, and keep your stress in check it WILL happen. Sometimes success isn’t measured in numbers and doesn’t occur at the speed at which you think it should. Trust the process of change. Stay the course, and don’t let life derail you! One bad weekend over the holiday? So what! Get back to work on your goals the next morning.

And last, but certainly not least…

Don’t Be A Crab!
If you watch crabs in a bucket, you’ll eventually see that when one tries to climb out that the others will pull it back to its eventual doom. Rather than everyone getting out individually, they collectively pull each other back in and die together. It almost sounds morosely poetic in some kind of darkly romantic way…

Not for the one getting pulled back! If you surround yourself with people that do not support your goals – perhaps your new “fit” lifestyle – you need to change your environment. First, discuss with those people close to you that it is important that they support you, and if they don’t? Find people that will lift you up and share in your decisions and successes, not tear you down or temp you to fall back into the habits you have spent so much effort breaking.

“There is nothing impossible to him who will try.”
– Alexander the Great

http://www.dominican.edu/dominicannews/study-highlights-strategies-for-achieving-goals

Make Your Life Easier With These Baking Soda Life-Hacks!

Sodium Bicarbonate (Baking Soda) is a chemical salt – a crystal actually – that occurs in its natural form as the mineral nahcolite and neutralizes the PH of both alkaline and acidic substances.  There are deposits of pure nahcolite which occur naturally in the Green River Formation, which spans a few states in the Central US that has enough to supply the entire world with baking soda for many hundreds of years! This gently abrasive, neutralizing substance can save you lots of money and make your life easier!

Boxing gloves less than fresh?  Put some baking soda in an old sock and store inside your gloves or sprinkle baking soda directly in the glove.  It will not harm your skin and will absorb the moisture that causes the odor!

Do you have a Glass Stovetop? Stop buying over-priced, chemical-laden cleaners to keep your stovetop sparkling! Drop spots of dish soap on, sprinkle top with baking soda, then pour on some hydrogen peroxide.  Scrub with a soft sponge.  Wait a few minutes before washing it off. and voila! Now you can toss all those expensive commercial cleaners.

Ice Tea or Coffee stains on your plastic and ceramic?? Storage containers and mugs can take a beating and develop a permanent brown look…or not?!  Pour some baking soda on the stains and scrub it right off!  Really, that easy!

Buildup from Hair Products can really weigh down your hair! Add 1 TBSP of baking soda to your normal amount of shampoo you use for a single wash. Wash and condition as normal. You might be amazed at the difference!  You can also clean your hairbrushes and combs by soaking them in a small container with 1 tsp baking soda.  Rinse them off and air dry.

 

Try making your own simple Toothpaste and Air Fresheners naturally with Baking Soda:

Toothpaste:
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon sea salt, finely ground
1 drop peppermint, spearmint, sweet orange, clove, or cinnamon bark essential oil
A few drops tap water

Air Freshener:
1TBSP baking soda
5-6 drops (your favorite) essential oil
Distilled water to fill a spray bottle.
Shake and spritz away!

Stress Incontinence? Don’t Worry. Pee Happy!

Have you ever experienced urine leakage while exercising or even coughing?  Do you think it only happens to mothers or females in general?

We are so lucky to have an Ellipse Fitness super hero member whose alter-ego is an expert on the pelvic floor. Veronica Lane, MHS, PT works with women all the time to strengthen their pelvic floor and stop the evil villain, we call, Stress Incontinence in its tracks.

Veronica noticed women heading off to the restroom during activities such as jumping jacks. Some members would joke, “darn kids,” and some coaches who empathize, “happens all the time.”

Lane says, “Yes.  It is common, but it doesn’t have to be tolerated, accepted, or considered a new normal.” Leaking, or incontinence, is not a hopeless result of vaginal births. Similarly, getting up in the middle of the night, at any age, can be resolved.

First, what is the pelvic floor and what does it do?

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These are the muscles that control urinary and fecal continence.  Strong pelvic floor muscles help to lift the bladder higher in the pelvic cavity, stop the flow of urine, and, along with the anal sphincter, control gas and stool. Poor muscle function can lead to problems with prolapse!

Functions of the Pelvic Floor include

  • Support
  • Sphinteric
  • Sexual
  • Stability

The pelvic floor is part of the core and works with the abdominal cylinder. These muscles need to be able to relax and contract. It is important to build your pelvic floor muscles to support other muscles of the torso.

Stress incontinence is the most diagnosed type of incontinence.  This often occurs when laughing, sneezing, coughing, and participating in physical activity. These activities are directly related to abdominal muscles more commonly referred to when trying to build a six pack.

Do I have to have surgery?

There are some procedures that should be discussed with your doctor. Of course, there are several methods of relief to try in advance of surgery. Lane suggests physical therapy for incontinence, prolapse, frequency, etc. “Conservative treatment should always be the first option!  Also, I still see many women following procedures such as bladder slings. The procedure may fix one problem, but cause another, or maybe it helped the problem(s) without complete resolution.”

Reduce Bladder Irritants

Alcohol*Beer/Wine              Carbonated Drinks*             Caffeine*

*evidence-based

Coffee/Tea (decaf & reg)

Citrus Fruits/Juices             Tomatoes

Spicy Foods                             Sweets                                    Chocolate

Dairy Products                                                                         Artificial Sweeteners

Top 10 Activities  to Increase Bladder Fitness

  1. Go to the bathroom every 3-4 hours or 5-7x in 24 hours
  1. Go for 8 Mississippi’s
  • A full bladder typically takes this long to empty. This can help individuals to determine how full their bladder is when the sensation to go
  1. SIT on the toilet
  • Don’t hover. Yeah. Easier said than done in many public situations!
  1. Go before and after sex
  • Voiding before and after sex is part of the contracting and relaxing process, as well as the cleansing process.
  1. Avoid using the wrong pads
  • Use pads specifically for incontinence. Others can irritate the vagina when worn regularly.
  1. Abdominal strength
  • Participate in exercises that strengthen your abdominal muscles. Try diaphragmatic breathing through a straw, single-leg lowers, and hollow body holds.
  1. Drink plenty of water.
  1. Kegal
  • Correctly! Completely contract. Completely relax. Avoid just squeezing over and over.
  1. Orgasm
  • We will leave the “how” that gets done up to you!
  1. NO “Just in case” urinating, aka JIC-ing. Not even in the middle of the night!

Just In Case Peeing or JIC-ing

JICing pronounce /JIK-ing/ is “just in case” urination. This practice is often supported by society in many ways.  We teach our children from a very early age to go JUST IN CASE before leaving the house, during school, or prior to a sports activity.

JICing trains the bladder to empty before it is full.  JICing regularly will increase the need to go at the first sensation recognized by the bladder. Sometimes that sensation will be laughing, coughing, sneezing, jumping, bracing the abdominal muscles in general, or even riding on a bumpy road.  Ever scurry off to the restroom during a workout because of a strong urge to “GO” yet only to have a few drops?  That is the result of chronic JICing.

The duration between trips to the restroom will also shorten. For example, many people get up in the middle of the night several times to empty the bladder.  Try to avoid going at the first sensation.  Breath and relax to see if the urge passes.  Sometimes habits are so deeply rooted, waking up seems to be normal. This may create some nights of poor sleep.  If we can play the long game, sleep hygiene will only improve.

Lane stresses, “I see a major issue, not as much with weak pelvic floor muscles, but we never ‘let them go’ or relax.  This is common when we have leakage, go too often, and/or have pelvic pain.  Think of bicep muscle.  If we always had our elbows bent and biceps contracted, not relaxed, we would not be able to pick up a gallon of milk.  The biceps would fail.  The same scenario occurs with PF muscles.  If we never let them relax for fear of leaking, going way too often, etc. these muscles will fail when it is time to stop leakage.

We would suggest eliminating just one bladder irritant and adding just one action item in the beginning.  Practice makes permanent. Be patient. Practice. Pee happy!